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"Your
Daughter Will Recover. . ."
As the mother of a drug addict,
Marta felt hopeless. The odds that her teen-age daughter would
abandon her addiction and her lifestyle seemed unlikely.
According to the specialists in Sicily, where the family lives,
young, pretty, female addicts were the least likely people to
stop taking drugs, especially heroin, "the tyrannical lover who
never lets you go," Marta says. She does not remember many
particular events during that painful time, but she does know
that it was a very low point in her life. The family had tried
everything they knew, but the teenager had left home, and was
living on the streets.
One Monday evening, Marta was
dismissing her catechism class, held in the Mother Church of
Mascalucia, a town on the slopes of Mount Etna. The students
were gathering papers, chatting with one another and leaving
their seats at the foot of a huge crucifix at the left hand side
of the alter. Marta looked up at the cross, then at her
favorite, a statue of St Michael the Archangel in mighty combat
with the Dragon. How she wished the angel could do battle for
her daughter as well.
Just then she noticed a young man
at the foot of the statue. He seemed to be waiting for
something. As the last child straggled down the aisle, the man
came forward to Marta.
"He introduced himself, but of
course I immediately forgot his name," Marta says. "Then he
mentioned that he was going to a famous detox center the
following day and needed something to eat." Marta looked at
him. Tall and thin, with fine features. Dressed very neatly in
a short-sleeved shirt, tucked into a newly-pressed pair of
jeans. "But it was his eyes, piercing and bright of an intense
blue, which seemed to read into my soul," Marta says. "Blue
eyes are not considered Sicilian features."
The situation was highly unusual.
He hardly looked like an addict. Mascalucia is a small town,
yet Marta had never seen him before. Why had he asked her--of
all people---to feed him, when there were many tourists in the
church? She could not give him any money, she told him. If he
was, in fact, a drug user, who knew what he would spend it on?
But she would buy him a snack at the restaurant across the
street.
The young man agreed. And as the
two began to walk to the church exit, Marta felt tears filling
her eyes. She had told very few people of her heartache, her
hopelessness. And yet this man seemed as if he would
understand. "I am a very emotional person normally, and of
course, the worry over my daughter had upset me even more,"
Marta says. As tears spilled down her checks, she poured out
her frustration and sorrow.
By now they were at the church
door. Marta was winding down, reaching for tissue to dry her
eyes. The young man had listened intently, but now he spoke.
"Your daughter is going to recover," he said. "She will be
fine, but you must send her to a specialized center, where she
will receive the right help. Will you do that?"
"Why, yes.” Marta nodded,
astonished. The next thing she knew, her companion was
striding away from her. Had he forgotten the snack she promised
to buy? Had he truly needed anything from her, or had he been
send to give her what she needed?
"I never saw this man again," she
says. But her desperation had gone, and hope had returned. Had
he been an angel? (They must certainly be in detox centers.)
Who knew? But the Lord had obviously sent him to console her,
to give her direction, and that was all she needed.
"Every time I remember this
encounter, I am still moved to tears," Marta says. "But today
they are happy tears." For her daughter is the contented mother
of a toddler, whose name is also Marta. And she no longer takes
drugs.
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